We love to think in either-or terms. Either I do, say, write, ask this or that will happen.
And we don’t allow ourselves many choices. They are often a this-or-that format as well.
But there are always more. We just haven’t thought long or clearly enough.
3=2 and then some.
HINT: Pay attention to dreams, seemingly random remarks, songs, art, books, etc. that are trying to get the attention of your consciousness and provide direction.