Remember the moment when a certain realization hit you?
You were right in the middle of doing something, saying something, and the realization stopped you in your tracks.
Everything changed, because you now saw an old situation in a new light.
Once the realization is accepted that even between the closest human beings infinite distances continue, a wonderful living side by side can grow, if they succeed in loving the distance between them which makes it possible for each to see the other whole against the sky. …………~ Rainer Maria Rilke